management

before heading out for lunch...

had a meeting with the management team for the first time.. full attendances, after 2 weeks.

not easy to manage your subordinates. especially with different mentalities, worst still if laziness is part of the working culture. it's hard to change.

you can't change what you are born with; your face, your height, your natural defects.

what you can change is every other thing, besides those mentioned above.

cultures that have been pre-determine for centuries. it takes one evolution to change everything.

characters and behaviours are shaped thru experiences. good or bad. we still can change it.

wealth, health, spirituality, relationships, intelligence, emotions..... all can be change...

depending on badly you need it be part of you.

many a times we need something to push us off the tipping point. we learned to fall, so that we would know. that's when we wake up. having said that, if we have some guidances, things would be so much easier. how can we learn then..?

there's always 2 sides of the coin.

still... management arr.. i need more guidances. i don't have basic training. please do understand, or at least try to.

First post of 2012

Its a brand new chinese new year calender. Okay.. Maybe i'm bit late by a week or so...just realize i have left this space aside for quite a while. But i do come back to read what's happenining with people around me.

Ive been very very laid back this past couple of months... And got a load earful from the gf. Its easy to be frustrated when things are not happening. A famous psychologist once said (can't remember the name), "if you stop learning/evolving/ .... You are as good as dead."

How often do we move forward, or grow. The only constant grow is side ways of our bodies.

When you see kids, everyone would just relate to them, deep down inside we all want to be like them. No worries, full of laughters and cries, and they just live their life.

Hmm.... Off track jor tim.

Anyway, i started work 2 days ago. Wasn't exactly what i have envision. There are things i could improve. It isn't exactly a big jump, surely hope it's the right thing to do this moment (yes, i have my doubts). Nevertheless, i'm looking forward to a great year ahead. Don't worry, the world is not collapsing, if you really thing it is to be, just remember to tell people you care about how much yu love them. If takde, just grab a dog and say you love it. Worst case, go to Macdonalds

Have a great year ahead and prosperous to all during this water dragon year. =)

next move

like a game in chess...

what is my next move will be.

problem is, i think too much....

dream

i had a dream yesterday...

and it shown me to be a counsellor. *shakes head*

'eh big guy... you sure ar??'

i miss

i miss those days...

miss those days that i could lay on the bed the WHOLE day doing nothing... for 3 consecutive days.

i miss when i'm out travelling with friends.. P.D., Bukit Tinggi, Tioman, Melaka... despite our differences, we would always have a blast.

i miss those laughters we shared... we laugh so loud that everyone is staring at us, and we would laugh even louder.

i miss those silly little things that we have done together. some are embarrassing, some are stupid, some are amusing. yet, every single one of it leaves in a pocket of memories that will be cherish.. always.

i miss those yum cha sessions.

... especially the ones that we went out at 3am in the morning. and ordering some weird stuff that is not in the menu.

i miss those crazy nights when we were loaded with assignments, and spend the nights together in MacDs, or bunking at each other houses just to plunge it into the pigeon hole before marks are being deducted.

i miss those chatting session on MSN from night till wee hours in the morning.

i miss those time when we drove up to Genting... just to have a cup of ice blended mocha.

i also miss those time when we drove to ulu yam... along the way, 3 cars stranded because one of ours have 2 flat tires.

those were the days. would the script make it to hollywood director's desk? hardly. media prima? maybe. but it was those experiences and adventures that makes you chuckle when you are alone and reminiscing... those were the days.

back to reality =)